^ Sounds kinda wrong, err...
K ive noticed alot of you people are nervous bout talking to them but heres the thing,
No matter what happens, everyone in life gets turned down, some people you see on tv now that look so good and whatnot have been ALL been turned down countless times...what im saying is, rejection and embarrasment is what you fear and you have to understand that although it is possiable, it really is inevitable, not every person in the world will like you but to what degree you get rejected is what your mind will exaggerate. And plus you have to relise its very very common, your not the only one whose been turned down and there are people who have been through worse (always are).
So 2 sum it up, think of it like this, it is sometihng inevitable that you will have 2 go through, every1 does, its just a part of life, think of it like getting hurt physically. Every person out there gets hurt, some people play sports and get hurt alot but does the good out weigh the bad? When you get burned, cut or scratched for the moment it may seem like the most painful thing but it goes away quickly and leaves you with a scar that usually dissapears and if it dosent it looks kinda cool...well i think it does anyway. Being social with the opposite s3x is pretty much the same.
Now thats if you do get rejected but odds are you wont, remeber their not much different than you are and it may seem a little bit weird in the begginig but in the end, the beggining will be forgotten (probably) and all they will really think bout was what you said (wheter that went good or bad).
Taking that first step is always a challenge and EVERYONE gets nervous, its just that some people can control it better than others, also keep in mind that even if the worst thing possiable does happen (say you say something really dumb or mess up really bad), there is ALWAYS a next time, there were always b more people out there, there will always be another chance and hopefully you will learn from your mistake.
BTW keep in mind that you shoud try and b urself, its not worth making friends with some1 who cant except you for what you are, never try and be some1 your not because your just playing with the other person and yourself.
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